Get Trump a Psych Eval, STAT!
Before you take a swig of bleach, look for an
orifice to inject ultra-violet light into, or spray disinfectant in your eyes,
please read this.
Trump
is not a doctor. He’s not even a normal person. He’s mentally ill. You should
not listen to him.
No,
I am not a doctor. However, when a doctor diagnoses a patient with a personality disorder they use a standard
reference to compare symptoms observed with those listed. This reference is the
DSM-5, aka the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, currently
in its 5th Edition.(Unfortunately, this book is prohibitively
expensive, so most quotes here come from other reliable sources.)
Narcissistic
personality disorder: a
pattern of need for admiration and lack of empathy for others. A person with
narcissistic personality disorder may have a grandiose sense of self-importance,
a sense of entitlement, take advantage of others or lack empathy. --American Psychological Association
Here
is another apt description of someone with NPD:
No matter how intelligent they are, narcissists remain emotionally immature. Like children or teenagers, they find it difficult to put the needs of others before
their own. No matter how many times you try to educate them about the power of
empathy or altruism, such lessons never stick.
Narcissism is an ‘insight free’ zone. -- Psychology Today
It
is generally accepted that one cannot diagnose a person with a personality
disorder without first conducting a proper psychiatric evaluation. Generally, I
would agree. If we were talking about somebody we’d never seen act out in a
variety of both public and private situations, we might not have enough
evidence of his nature to make a judgment call. But we’ve been watching the
President for years, and several biographies have been written about him. His
behavior has resulted in lawsuits for everything from sexual assault to fraud, and he’s the only
president in U.S. history to be impeached in his first term. I’d say we have
plenty of very specific information about this man to make a reasonable
diagnosis.
If
you still doubt this supposition, just look at the qualities used by psychiatric
professionals to determine a diagnosis of NPD; then look at Trump. And let’s be
clear, we are not talking about narcissistic tendencies—we are talking
about a full-blown personality disorder, which by definition is
extremely difficult to treat because those who have them are insistent in their
belief that nothing is wrong with them.
Here’s
a complete list of the symptoms and how they are applied to reach a diagnosis
of NPD. This list was provided by John M. Grohol, Psy.D.
In order for a person to
be diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) they must meet five
or more of the following symptoms:
Has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates
achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior
without commensurate achievements)
achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior
without commensurate achievements)
Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power,
brilliance,
beauty, or ideal love
beauty, or ideal love
Believes that he or she is “special” and unique and can only be
understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status
people (or institutions)
understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status
people (or institutions)
Requires excessive admiration
Has a very strong sense of entitlement, e.g., unreasonable expectations
of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her
expectations
of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her
expectations
Is exploitative of others,
e.g., takes advantage of others to achieve his or
her own ends
her own ends
Lacks empathy, e.g.,
is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings
and needs of others
and needs of others
Is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or
her
her
Regularly shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes
There are nine items on this list. Trump exhibits all of them.
You might think that if Trump is that messed up,
no one would have voted for him. Not so. Research suggests that narcissists
work overtime to gain approval and acceptance. They purposefully attempt to
make others feel special, and they exude a confidence that belies reality. It’s
all part of the act—to make others feel close to them—and to give others the
sense that they too are special.
This targeting of individuals to build a loyal
base of people who can be relied upon to backup the false claims of the
narcissist are successful for the same reason cult leaders are able to recruit
members. Confident people are attractive.
The reason we are attracted to narcissists is
because we assume their confidence is born of some skill, talent, or other
valuable trait they possess. In Trump’s case, the only prevailing talent is
deception—he does display an uncanny ability to manipulate others into believing
he is more than he actually is. He has a knack for distorting (or even erasing)
reality and replacing it with whatever makes him appear in the most favorable
light. It is lucky for him that his disorder allows him to disregard facts and
the feelings of others in his constant quest to prove his own innate
superiority.
The extreme behavior of a person with NPD is a
hard thing for most people to comprehend. Many of us have met people with
narcissistic tendencies, but few have come face to face with someone with the
severity of emotional illness that a personality disorder indicates. That’s in
part because only about 0.5 – 1.0% of the population
has this particular disorder.
It is, therefore, understandable that people have
trouble grappling with the inevitability of Trump’s abnormal behavior. How many
times have we heard intelligent, well-educated people say, “Maybe this will
motivate him to be more ‘presidential’.” Or they might provide a detailed
list of things he should do—as if he is capable of doing anything other than
what he already does.
In response to these hopeless comments, I can
only shout:
"He can't get better. The President is broken."
No matter how many times Trump is presented with
an opportunity to take charge, manage events, or prove his competence, he
simply increases the bravado, finger-pointing, pontificating, and obfuscating.
No actual work is ever accomplished because The Donald doesn’t do anything—he
is a front—he is the personification of fake news.
Despite this well-documented reality, a small
percentage of Americans insist on believing in him. Why? Because he got to them
on an emotional level before they understood the facts. The paragraph below
explains why narcissists can easily be accepted before their true nature is
known.
They are exploitative
and have a high sense of entitlement (Back, Schmukle, & Egloff, 2010).
Before you even realize the trap you've fallen into, a narcissist can suck
you into a relationship with their charm and false aura of ‘elitism’. They
know how to get us to bend to their desires before we even know their names. –Psychology Today
His most ardent supporters will cite his ability
to craft a winning spin on almost any situation instantaneously—how gifted he is!
How talented! What a marketing genius! They would be wise to remember that his
talent is for deception. He does a brilliant job of promoting himself, nothing
more. We should not be rewarding him for it.
The President of the United States of America is
mentally ill and his Republican cronies will do nothing about it.
It’s time for the public to demand that a
respected, high-profile psychiatrist do the necessary work to properly diagnose
him, so we can finally stop pretending he’s a “stable genius,” when in truth,
he’s a walking nightmare.
Are you with me?
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