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The Republican party gave up decency, honesty, and integrity
for Donald Trump. It wasn’t in the plan, it was a casualty—a casualty of their
decision to tie their fortunes to an unstable, vengeful man whose bravado and
inability to accept defeat would overwhelm them all and fool them into believing
he was something he is not—a strong man who could do their bidding and keep
their people in line.
Trump’s lack of experience and knowledge regarding the role
of the president and the inner workings of government led the Republican political
class to believe he’d play the role of a figurehead, like George W. Bush. He
would help them maintain control of a party, and a country, they were fast
losing their grip on.
At first, Ted Cruz, Marco Rubio and Lindsay Graham pushed
back. They were clear-eyed about Trump’s shortcomings and were vocal about it.
But somewhere down the line, it became clear that refusing to support Trump was
no longer an option. Why?
Threats work. Republicans are not free-thinking,
creative people who can pivot when circumstances change. It’s always been
pretty much one-for-all and all-for-one with them. It’s one of their few
strengths, politically. Until now.
Now the figurehead is running their show and it’s getting
uglier by the minute.
Trump is targeting one of the Republican party’s most influential
leaders: Senate Minority Leader Mitch McConnell. It’s not what they expected.
But it should have been.
Ever since McConnell responded to the events of January 6th
by saying “…President Trump is practically and morally responsible for provoking the
events of the day,” he’s been on
Trump’s hit list.
It matters not that McConnell has done more to advance
white/male/Christian control over our justice system than anyone—with his
refusal to allow even one Supreme Court nominee to be vetted during the Obama
administration—he’s now Trump’s enemy.
Why? Because he dissed Trump. It’s that simple. Trump has no
other motivator.
Everything Trump does is about protecting his fragile ego.
Mitch has finally learned what Michael Cohen already knows:
Trump is loyal to nothing and no one.
Why don’t his followers understand this? I suppose it’s
because they think when Trump targets someone, it’s because they deserve it. Not
so.
Trump’s behavior isn’t about the victims he targets—they are
irrelevant. Equally irrelevant are the political consequences of his actions. He
is not a strategist, he’s a reactionary. He lies and cheats because he is a
liar and a cheater—it’s in him, it’s got nothing to do with anybody else.
∞
To understand Trump, you need to understand what it means to
have a personality
disorder. For one thing, it doesn’t work to project your idea of normal
human behavior onto someone with a personality disorder. The usual rules don’t
apply.
Specifically, a normal person with an abundance of
confidence has accomplishments to justify that confidence. When a similar
abundance of confidence is demonstrated by a person with narcissistic
personality disorder, it is because that person is incapable of surviving
emotionally without constantly reminding others of how great they are.
Such people will do anything to keep attention on themselves.
That includes, in fact requires, pretending to be better at everything
than they are.
The need for approbation is so strong in such a person they
can never get enough. They must always project strength, intelligence,
competence. This is why Trump spends so much of his time talking about how
great he is: it’s how he needs to see himself.
Remember when Trump took the cognitive test and bragged
about it? He reminded me of a 10-year-old, telling his mommy how well he
did on his math test. His inability to comprehend how ridiculous he appeared shows
how lacking in self-awareness he is. He thought he sounded smart.
Nothing matters to Trump as much as his need to be adored,
admired, elevated, even worshipped. It is the foundation of his entire sense of
self. That’s how we know Trump has a personality disorder and not just narcissistic
tendencies.
Today, when I hear people say things like “Trump is a
marketing genius” or “Trump sure knows how to use social media” or anything
that implies Trump is smart and savvy, I just cringe.
Fran Leibowitz said it best “You
don’t know anyone as stupid as Donald Trump.”
When people say they hope he’ll come around, they are denying
reality. He won’t, he can’t. What we’ve seen is all there is.
Trump is broken.
∞
It was not leadership qualities or a sound political platform
that won Trump the presidency in 2016. It was two things, one random, the other
carefully orchestrated by the one superpower who wants our democracy to fail: Russia.
The random part is that so many angry Americans identified
with him. This should not surprise us because they share similar characteristics:
gullibility, lack of education, poor critical thinking skills, unwillingness to
take responsibility for their situation, the need to blame others for their
unhappiness.
Like Trump, his followers, see educated people as a threat.
They too want to blame someone for their failures. Anyone who can validate them
and excuse them from being responsible for their own unhappiness is a prime
candidate for elevation to the role of leader, guru or even Messiah.
They were all looking for a way to feel better about themselves.
Trump gave them that.
He also told them to distrust the government.
He said he would be different.
He said, “I alone can fix it.”
And they bought it.
∞
Putin knew Trump would do more to create chaos than a
military strike ever could, and he took advantage of that knowledge to make his
move. The Russia-based Internet Research
Agency flooded social media with every kind of lunacy to discredit
Democrats and anybody else who questioned Trump’s qualifications or motives.
QAnon, Putin, Twitter and Facebook assured Trump his
first election victory.
If you doubt their contribution to Trump’s political success,
look at Trump’s inability to keep even a moderate presence on social media
since he lost the 2020 election. Even with his own much touted website (a failure
by any standard) he’s gone nowhere.
Putin doesn’t care anymore and even
Q has stopped encouraging Trump and his followers. He’s still banned
from Twitter. Facebook
has also banned him until after the 2022 mid-terms. We’ll have to see if they
lift that ban or not.
If Trump had the internet chops people have credited him
with, he’d have found a way to maintain his presence. But he failed because he’s
a victim of his own worst instincts and they sabotage everything he touches.
The only power Trump has now is based on fear. Republicans
know he’ll resort to violence if he’s cornered. They know his supporters will
follow suit.
They are all held hostage by the dunce who thinks he’s a
winner because none of his cronies are willing to tell him otherwise.
Trump and what’s left of the Republican party are not working
toward “… a more
perfect Union.” They are working toward a system of white/male/Christian
minority rule.
Like the Nazi’s in the lead-up to WWII, Trump’s followers
needed a scapegoat and they’re not that fussy about who it is. Blacks, Jews,
Women, Muslims—they’ll all do just fine.
What brought the Republican base to Trump was their
willingness to believe what he told them: That they were special. Unfortunately,
when the person telling you that is the President of the United States, that’s
a heady thing.
Imagine a Pulitzer Prize winning author commenting on one of
your stories “This is fabulous! You’re so talented! Keep it up! You’re special!”
It doesn’t matter that Trump is functionally illiterate,
petty, and sounds like a moron whenever he speaks.
They trust him because he allows them to believe in
themselves.
∞
What gave Trump the status of Messiah among the Republican
base is the very thing causing the party’s current implosion: violence,
negativity, hatred and condemnation of Democrats and anyone else who dares
question their irrational beliefs.
The world is changing but they are banking on Trump to stop
it. The more grandiose Trump’s portrayal of himself, the more his base believes
him capable of. They too fail to recognize the nature of Trump’s delusions.
They still believe he is a successful businessman, despite
evidence to the contrary. Their follow-the-leader mentality coupled with his
ability to raise their own self-esteem is a combination they are helpless to
resist.
It’s okay if they are filled with hate. It’s okay if they think
killing people is an appropriate solution to their anger. It’s okay if they refuse
to learn, grow, adapt.
Donald is just like them, and he is the most successful person
on earth.
∞
The Democrats also failed to comprehend the true nature of their
nemesis. For all their book smarts and lofty talk, they too projected normalcy
onto Trump. For years into his presidency pundits and politicians alike were
waiting for him come around, to be more presidential. So fearful of appearing
judgmental or unfair, they gave him exactly what he needed to strengthen his
grip on the country. They went along.
When he nominated Gorsuch for the Supreme Court, they chose
to forgive and forget how McConnell had blocked the nomination of Merrick
Garland to the bench just a few years earlier. They backed a man who believed
it was appropriate to punish a truck driver for saving his own life by abandoning
his broken-down vehicle in below freezing weather. Never mind that had he
stayed inside that truck he would not have survived until morning.
How ironic that a nominee to the highest court in the land was
confirmed by members of both parties after demonstrating such a blatant
lack of judgement. Is a truck more valuable than a life? Are the rules more
important than a human being? Apparently, so.
A single Democrat (Joe Manchin) similarly failed us by
confirming Justice Kavanaugh. Whether you believe he attempted to rape Christine
Blasi Ford or not, you can’t deny the viciousness or blatant disrespect his
behavior conveyed during his confirmation hearings. This is a man whose life of
privilege led him to feel entitled to a place on the court, regardless of his behavior,
temperament, or suitability.
Watch the hearing without the sound. What you will see is a
man so convinced of his superiority and the inevitability of his appointment
that he becomes rabid at the slightest suggestion that he might not be the best
choice. Where is the reasoned judgment and level-headedness we used to think were
necessary for someone tasked with such an awesome responsibility?
Trump’s third nominee, Amy Coney Barrett, was not supported
by Democrats, but it didn’t matter. After stacking the court with Republicans
prior to her nomination, this was the final nail in the coffin for women’s
rights. The current Texas abortion law would not be law at this time if she
hadn’t joined the court. We knew she was part of a Christian
cult that was pro-birth. We knew what she would do if she was allowed to
join the other conservative justices on the court, and we let her do it.
∞
But perhaps the biggest failing of the Democratic party is
one both Obama and Clinton are personally responsible for. They failed to
recognize the power of their words and the weakness of the Republican base.
They insulted, demeaned, and diminished the very people they needed to win
over.
Obama didn’t understand the damage he did when he accused Republicans
of clinging
to guns or religion and blaming immigrants to explain their frustrations.
When Hillary Clinton called Trump supporters “A basket of
deplorables” she sealed her fate as well. She fed them exactly what they
needed to make her an enemy for life. While no one could have predicted the
lunacy that would follow, her years of political experience should have told
her you don’t win hearts and minds by ridiculing people.
When Trump entered the political arena, he was the antithesis
of the snide, superior, liberal elites who insulted the Republican base and made
it impossible for them to trust the Democratic party. It was Obama and Clinton
who opened the door for the flamboyant and comically incompetent man who
soothed the hurt feelings of the angry mob and fed their need to feel justified
in their hatred of anyone more educated and more successful than they knew themselves
to be.
When emotions run high, facts fly out the window.
Fortunately, Biden knows this. That’s why he is always
measured, contemplative, empathetic. But because he is also a Democrat, the ire
of the Republican base has already been raised against him.
If he can pass legislation that helps the disenfranchised,
it may help. If we can find a way to curtail the downward spiral of vitriol encouraged
by the amoral business practices of Facebook, it may help. If we can elect more
democratically minded politicians to Congress, it may help.
If Biden can undo some of the damage done by his predecessors,
we may be able to save our democracy, for now.
Let’s just hope future politicians remember these
lessons.
Labels: democracy in peril, narcissistic personality disorder, political elites, Trump, Trump the Messiah